Monday, March 30, 2009

30 March 09 update - birth portal, information empowers explained, household items

30 MARCH 2009 UPDATE

Hello Everybody

Thank you to the following contributors:

Arlene J, Dr Lara S, Bronwyn H, Marlene H, Frenske O, Jane and Sebastian D, Jo D., Nikki A, Sandy s, Sharon W, Heather M, The Anonymous Friends at The New Beginnings Clinic, Peter N., Rene G., Donna C and Michael P., Jennifer N., Anne W and Karen K.

Even the smallest amount of things can make the biggest difference; and you have enabled us to help many people who are in dire straits this month.


Births this month…..

During my visit to the clinic this morning [Monday, 30th March] there were 3 babies were born. Another mom and newborn came in with an ambulance – she had given birth in the ambulance to a beautiful boy. And there were a couple of moms-to-be in serious labour. The tally of babies born this month so far, before the ambulance arrived, was at 179. Tomorrow is the last day of the month and I can therefore say that 179 births is not accurate.

While standing in the labour room, with all this activity going on around me – the sisters and nursing staff explaining to the one mom that she’s not entirely dilated and, no, the baby can’t come out yet; the ambulance arriving with the baby and mom; the new arrivals [women who had gone into labour at home, or early]… the thought came to mind that this labour ward was like a portal: precious lives entering the world to embark on who knows what kind of future?

One can just take a deep breath and say thank you to the higher powers which guide us and lead us for our lives. We are privileged to be able to help other people.



Information empowers project

I need to clarify that the information empowers project runs separately from the Zoe Project – even though the people we want to reach are the same [poorer communities in the Cape Flats] and the people we work with are essentially the same [safe houses, baby houses and eventually, schools and so forth].

The Zoe Project currently is only concentrating on the Retreat Maternity Clinic and the clients who come through there. We are in contact with the safe houses and the baby houses because of the people who come to the Retreat Clinic for assistance. Tracey is also doing work with schools where the educators have found the need for pregnancy and pregnancy prevention education. This has been an ongoing thing.

We are also in touch with an organisation called ‘Turning Point’ – they work with women who are in prison and who have decided to keep their children with them. [These kids stay with their moms in prison until the age of 5.]

Information Empowers project started off 5 years ago as a research project for myself. I have been working on and off with it, but in the past year or so, have given it a more concentrated effort.

It is basically what the name says: the intention is to inform people so that they may be empowered to live a better life through knowledge – and it is about helping the children mostly. It is about prevention and awareness of child sexual abuse, teaching children and parents what danger signs to look for and what situations to avoid, what to do and where to go for help in any abusive situation and to teach children how to be safe.

Basic ‘good parenting’ education is added in the mix. It is an ongoing project and it is very exciting to know that one’s passion can be so rewarding.

It is funny how things can grow arms and legs… one starts off with a small project, and before you know it, it has subdivided and is no longer an amoeba; but rather an octopus driving a mini-van with 10 kids in the back.

I will keep you updated as to the progress of the information empowers project.

Unwanted Household items…

Should you have any unwanted, working household electrical appliances, linen, curtains, or good second hand clothes for women and children/babies – please let me know and I will collect them from your house and deliver to the safe house or baby house where they can use it. I would just like to ask that you ensure that all clothing is washed.

Thank you to everybody who have contributed so far. The people at Saartjie Baartman Centre and Place of Hope and Sisters’ Incorporated have been overwhelmed with the kind response I’ve had to my request.

Pass on the message…

Please continue to pass this information and my contact details on to your friends, colleagues and associates. The more people who know, the more people can help! Big things start small and you are doing something valuable and important by helping.

Please phone or email me should you need any information on either the Zoe Project or the information empowers project. I am always available to help.

Lots of love


Norah
The Zoe Project
And
Information empowers
norah@xsinet.co.za

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

03 March 09 update - Dullah course offered

THE ZOE PROJECT UPDATE AND FEEDBACK – 3 MARCH 2009

Hi Everybody

A Huge Thank you to all who have contributed to this month’s collection drive. We have managed so much from your contributions; and every effort is appreciated.
Thank you to the following people:

Arlene J, Bronwyn H., Jane and Sebastian D., Jo D., Lisa S., Lisa S’s anonymous friends, Nikki A., Sandy S., Sheena H., Sharon W., Heather M., Colleen W., Michael P., Janine P.,
Anonymous friends at the New Beginnings Clinic
Anonymous parents at Monterey Pre-Primary School

Well done and thank you again!

Births this month…

167 babies were born at the Retreat Maternity Clinic during the month of February 2009.


Pantry and mom and baby packs…

In last month’s collection drive, I asked that you concentrate on the dry goods pantry more than the moms and baby packs. We’ve found that the food is stretched only the way it can be stretched by people who know how to do it. They would buy an onion and maybe a green pepper to fill up the pot, and then use the tinned food and rice or pasta to make sufficient food for the amount of people that night. Thank you very much to everybody who has helped us fill up the pantry and ensure that the moms who stay overnight and the Kangaroo moms now have enough food for the month of March.
Next month, we can go back to the normal list of goods required for both the Pantry; and the Moms and Baby packs.


Household items… linen… working electrical appliances…

What a wonderful contribution of household items! We’ve received a number of good-condition electrical appliances and linen and towels which will be distributed amongst our safe houses. Thank you so much – these items are given to the women who leave the safe houses after a period of time, and when they are able to support themselves and their children; and can move into an apartment or home of their own.

I have also had a tremendous response to the 2nd hand, clean baby clothes. These items [plus a couple of wonderful toys thrown in] will be distributed amongst the baby houses.
And just when we thought we had run out of baby grows, I received a BOX full of them for the baby houses. Miracles happen!


Dullah course offered….

One of the ways in which anyone can help at the Retreat Clinic is to become a Dullah, or birthing assistant. One must have time to sit with the moms while they are in labour and one cannot “run off” until the baby is born. We are in contact with a Certified Midwife who is running a Professional Accredited Dullah course between June and December this year. It will be one full Saturday per month for the 6 month period [lunch is included] and is sponsored by Johnson and Johnson. The course used to be run from Constantiaberg Medi-Clinic, however we do not know at this time where the venue will be. The cost of the course is approximately R2000.00, and for those of you who are interested, please contact me and let me know if you’d like to participate.


Information empowers update…

Fantastic news on the brochure! You all know that I have been working on this for a while and now Childline has now finally agreed to undersign it.

My main worry was the design of the brochure and printing thereof. Tracey and Sean Fraser have very kindly and very generously offered to do the design of the brochure for me!!!! You guys have absolutely NO idea how grateful I am for this wonderful gift! Thank you!

There is currently a distribution plan, but I do not want to rush ahead of myself. One thing at a time… I operate on faith and I know that from somewhere a solution for the printing of the brochure will happen.

Childline has also agreed to comment on any other child safety related documents that I produce.

Thank you to everybody who has supported and encouraged me in this very important endeavour.


Please pass on the message…

Word of mouth and the brochures which have been left at various points have helped spread the word about the Zoe Project. By passing on our introductory email to your friends [if you haven’t already] you may find one person who is able to help in some remote way. Please continue passing on the message and thank you for doing this.
Should you need brochures to hand out, let me know and I will get them to you.

Should you or any of your friends have any questions regarding either the Zoe Project or the information empowers project, please email or phone me. I am always available.

Take care of yourselves and lots of love